A divorce doesn’t have to be a failure.
Talking about divorce is never easy, especially with all the social prejudices that exist around it. It is time to understand that it is neither a condemnation nor a failure because a separation is better than an unhappy relationship.
When you get married, you are absolutely sure that you have finally managed to find the right person with whom you will share the rest of your life. However, things do not always go as planned and the fairy tale ends up becoming a horror tale.
You soon realize that you are no longer so compatible with that person, that they are not walking to the same side, that they stopped seeing for a common future or worse, that the bad relationship has escalated to levels of psychological or physical abuse.
Maybe you’ve thought about separating or getting divorced but a part of you thinks you can fix things or that you should stay because you’re afraid of “what they’ll say.” Sometimes having children together can also be a great reason to think you should fight to save the relationship. That is not the case.
A divorce allows you to regain control of your life and somehow becomes a rebirth.
These celebrities have shown that breaking a commitment is far from a failure and that on the contrary, it opens the doors to everything you really deserve.
Jennifer Aniston’s romance with Brad Pitt was one of the most popular in the industry. Everyone saw them as an example to follow because they were not only handsome but also talented and charismatic. They married in 2000, in the mansion of television producer Marcey Carsey. The wedding cost a million dollars. Five years later they signed the divorce and rumors of an affair between Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie seemed to be a reality. It was in January 2006 that Brangelina announced that they were expecting their first child together.
Over the years, Jennifer learned that divorce had been the best thing and although in interviews she has revealed that she did feel anger and shame, she understood that it was not worth focusing on. Jen remarried and divorced but the experience of the past taught her to see again for her well-being and still have her own ambitions far from what they will say.
“I’ve always been very skeptical about marriage because I want to do it once and, when I get married, it has to be with the right person,” the actress told Entertainment Tonight. But in 2005 she decided to give driver Jesse James a chance, a man who ended up cheating on her repeatedly.
Their relationship ended in an inevitable and scandalous divorce. However, with the separation came the approval of a child’s adoption application, which had been a long but long-awaited process for Sandra.
The Puerto Rican host is one of television’s most beloved figures. Her marriage to singer Luis Fonsi seemed to be going from strength to strength, especially since the Despacito singer was supporting Adamari with his cancer diagnosis. However, that was what led them to separate. “Facing what I thought was the love of my life and a cancer diagnosis for me was a very hard blow,”she said.
Today, Adamari is married to dancer Toni Costa and has a beautiful daughter named Alaïa. In addition, she overcame cancer and is always full of promising projects.