Nadezhda Alliluyeva

Nadezhda was born on September 22, 1901, in Baku, Azerbaijan to Sergei Alliluyev and his wife Olga Fedorenko. Her father was a Russian railway worker who later moved to the Caucasus for work. He became an important figure in the Bolshevik revolution. Her mother, who was of German and Georgian descent, spoke Russian with a strong accent.

She was a strong-willed and independent woman. Nadezhda had two brothers, Pavel and Fyodor, and a sister, Anna.

In 1904, Joseph Stalin returned to Tiflis (now known as Tbilisi, the capital of Georgia) and became acquainted with Sergei and his family. The rumours that Olga had an affair with Stalin are quite probably true. Her relationship with her husband was strained. According to family legends, Nadezhda’s brother Pavel once witnessed his mother in a compromising position with Stalin. Furthermore, Svetlana, Nadezhda’s daughter and Olga’s granddaughter, later wrote her grandmother had a “weakness for southern men," and often said that "Russian men are boors”.

This relationship was nothing out of the ordinary as casual sexual liaisons were quite common among the revolutionaries. However, the claim that Stalin himself had fathered Nadezhda is a false one. When he met the Alliluyev family for the first time, Nadezhda was already three years old. Despite the alleged relationship and having a “soft corner” for Stalin, Olga vehemently went on to object the relationship and the subsequent marriage between Stalin and her daughter, largely because of the 22-year age difference.

Soon afterwards, while he was staying in Baku, the present capital of Azerbaijan, Stalin saved Nadezhda from drowning in the Caspian Sea. In the subsequent years, he became quite close to the entire family, often using their home as a source of assistance and refuge during his exile in 1911. In the following year, Stalin escaped to St. Petersburg and began working on converting the Bolshevik weekly newspaper, Zvezda ("Star") into a daily, Pravda ("Truth"). He was arrested in February 1913 and sentenced to four years exile in Turukhansk, a remote part of Siberia.

Stalin had been married before. In 1906, he married Ketevan "Kato" Svanidze, the daughter of a teacher and minor Georgian noble. She bore him a son, Yakov Dzhugashvili, before dying 18 months later due to an illness, which was either typhus or tuberculosis.

Stalin also had several sexual relationships after Kato’s death and before his marriage to Nadezhda. He fathered at least three children during this period. Konstantin Kuzakov (1911-1996) was born to Maria Kuzakova, his landlady during the 1911 exile in Solvychegodsk. In addition, he had two children with Lidia Pereprygia, who was just 13 years old when Stalin met her in 1914 in Serbia.

Nadezhda served him with unquestioning loyalty in the following months and travelled with him as he set out on his work as the People’s Commissar for Nationalities. She accompanied him to the city of Tsaritsyn during the Russian Civil War. They soon became lovers and were married in 1919.

She gave birth to her first child, a son whom they named Vasily, on March 21, 1921. Her daughter, Svetlana, was born on February 28, 1926.

In the subsequent years, she started to find her life in the Kremlin to be suffocating. Her relationship with her husband became turbulent. The man whom she had once believed to be the archetypal Soviet “new man”, revealed himself to be a quarrelsome bore. He was often drunk, openly flirted with the wives of his colleagues, and even had affairs with a few.

On the evening of November 8, 1932, Stalin and Nadezhda organised a banquet in the Kremlin to commemorate the 15th anniversary of the October revolution. By then, they had come to resent each other and would often argue in front of others. That day was no different. Nadezhda claimed that he was being inconsiderate towards her. In response, Stalin started flicking cigarettes at her and addressed her as “Hey, you.” Humiliated, Nadezhda left the hall with Polina Zhemchuzhina, Vyacheslav Molotov’s wife, in tow. They briefly walked together in the Kremlin grounds before Nadezhda retired to her room.

Her body was discovered by servants the following morning. She had reportedly killed herself with the pistol her brother, Pavel Alliluyev, had given her as a gift. The official story was that she died of appendicitis. Svetlana, who was six years old then, was told the same but learned the truth ten years later. There are speculations that Stalin had murdered his wife. However, there is no proof of that.

Unlike most Bolsheviks, who were usually laid to rest in the Kremlin Wall Necropolis, Nadezhda was buried on November 11, 1932, in Novodevichy Cemetery in Moscow, which was generally used for artists, writers, and nobility.