Ella Wheeler Wilcox

Ella Wheeler married Robert Wilcox in 1884. He belonged to Meriden, Connecticut, and they lived there for some time before they moved to New York, and then later to Granite Bay, a place in Branford, Connecticut. They had several houses and cottages, which they used for literary and artistic gatherings. They had a son as well, who died shortly after birth. Ella’s husband also shared her views on New Thought and Spiritualism.

After over thirty years of marriage, Robert Wilcox died in 1916, which left Ella in a depressed state for a long time. They had promised each other that whoever died first would come and contact the other. However, since she got no message from him, it left her with grief, until Max Heindel, a renowned astrologer, mystic and occultist, explained to her in detail why she was not being contacted.

She was diagnosed with cancer in her later years which led to her death on October 30, 1919.

Ella Wheeler was born on 5 November 1850 in Johnstown in Wisconsin. She was the youngest of four siblings.

Her family had to soon move to Madison, which was the capital city of Wisconsin. In the meantime, Ella had started writing poetry though she was very young. Her works started appearing in papers and journals while she was still a teenager.

By the time she completed her high school, she had become a very well-known poet all over the state. She attended the University of Wisconsin in 1867-68 but she gave up her studies to devote herself to writing.

Ella Wheeler’s first book ‘Drops of Water’, a collection of temperance verses, was published in 1872, which was followed by ‘Shells’, a collection of poems of mostly religious and moral nature, in 1873.

She published ‘Maurine’ in 1876. Her next book which was a collection of love poems was initially rejected by the publisher. However, it was published later in 1883, by another publisher, and received much success. The book which was titled ‘Poems of Passion’ sold 60,000 copies in just two years. It also firmly established Wheeler’s reputation as a poet and author.

In 1883, ’Solitude’, one of her most famous poems, was published in ‘The New York Sun’ a politically conservative newspaper of that time. She was paid $5 for the poem. The poem was also included in her famous poem collection ‘Poems of Passion.’

She received inspiration for the poem ‘Solitude’ when she was travelling to attend the Governor’s inaugural ball in Madison. She met a young crying woman on the way whom she tried to comfort for the rest of the journey. When she arrived at her destination, she felt extremely depressed and could hardly pay attention to the celebrations. When she looked at her own reflection in the mirror, she was reminded of the crying woman again. That’s when the opening lines of the poem were composed.

An ardent believer in the New Thought Movement, Ella Wheeler Wilcox made attempts to teach occult stuff to the world. She wrote a lot about topics like positive thinking, law of attraction, personal power, etc. to popularize the movement. Her booklet ‘What I Know about New Thought’ became quite popular as well, and had a distribution of 50,000 copies.

'Poems of Passion', published in 1883, was a collection of some of Ella Wheeler Wilcox’s best poems. Though it was initially feared that the title of the book would cause controversy, the book was a great success, and embraced by thousands of readers. ’Maurine and Other Poems’ was another collection of some of her best poems, which were mainly about topics such as love and friendship

'New Thought Common Sense' was one of her books explaining and promoting New Thought philosophy. She wrote the book in a language of simplicity, so that it wouldn’t be difficult for the common man to understand it. The book, which was published in 1908, explores the spiritual aspects of Eastern religions like Hinduism and Buddhism.

The book was about God realization and how human beings can realize the divinity within themselves. She explained how human beings can build their personality, along with topics like marriage, women, parenthood, etc. She also discussed the difference between religion and spirituality, and how the later is superior to the former.

'The Power of Right Thought' was another one of her works on New Thought philosophy. Twenty-four selected essays of Wilcox are contained in this work. The essays mainly deal with topics like Faith, Hope, Courage and Self-Confidence.

In this book she also focused much on the importance of happiness, and why it is important to be happy and live in the present moment, forgetting the money one has lost, mistakes one has made, or injuries one has received. She also talked of the spirit and its limitless powers, and how one could work to realize it. She also explained the importance of patience and how it is extremely important for someone who wants to experience true transformation.